Somebody advise me how to get out of my elder sister’s shadow?
Me You asked:
I am a 16 year old guy. My elder sister is 22. Well she has always treated me kind of like a baby, pulling my cheeks, baby talking me and kissing me like a thousand times in a day, since I was born. I dont dislike her, dont get me wrong, she used to care for me ALOT when I was young. The problem here is that I feel like she is always right on top of me. She has this weird advantage over me, like I cant ever answer to her and she can embarrass me whenever she wants ( I turn red whenever she touches my cheeks or something like that
). When I was young she sort of tortured me by forcing me to stay on her lap for a long time and all that… Since she always treats me like some kid, all the girls me and her know look at me like that. Like when she’s talking to one of them they ask So how’s your little baby bro I dont like it at all. So tell me this, why do our elder sisters like treating us guys like babies??? She takes it to the extreme. She STILL pulls my cheeks in public and I’m not allowed to hit her or something because my parents say she just loves you so f****** much @The first answerer: No way man! I dont **** her!!!!!!
@ Amit: Kiss my a** douchebag =P
@Mono: Yeah I could, but then she would start scolding me and get me in trouble lol
@Suyash; nah, she will not take me seriously. She will just say ‘Awwwwwww dont you like my kisses and grab my face or something =P she is crazy
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I am a 16 year old guy. My elder sister is 22. Well she has always treated me kind of like a baby, pulling my cheeks, baby talking me and kissing me like a thousand times in a day, since I was born. I dont dislike her, dont get me wrong, she used to care for me ALOT when I was young. The problem here is that I feel like she is always right on top of me. She has this weird advantage over me, like I cant ever answer to her and she can embarrass me whenever she wants ( I turn red whenever she touches my cheeks or something like that
). When I was young she sort of tortured me by forcing me to stay on her lap for a long time and all that… Since she always treats me like some kid, all the girls me and her know look at me like that. Like when she’s talking to one of them they ask So how’s your little baby bro I dont like it at all. So tell me this, why do our elder sisters like treating us guys like babies??? She takes it to the extreme. She STILL pulls my cheeks in public and I’m not allowed to hit her or something because my parents say she just loves you so f****** much @The first answerer: No way man! I dont **** her!!!!!!@ Amit: Kiss my a** douchebag =P
@Mono: Yeah I could, but then she would start scolding me and get me in trouble lol
@Suyash; nah, she will not take me seriously. She will just say ‘Awwwwwww dont you like my kisses and grab my face or something =P she is crazy
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February 3rd, 2011 at 6:22 am
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Dont you tell your siblings to f*ck off? I do
February 4th, 2011 at 3:06 pm
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Well, in the first place your parents are pretty right that she loves you a lot and does not intentionally embarrass you or anything.
But, I do understand your problem and I think you should talk to her like a friend in private and just frankly tell her not to do that in public. She will understand, believe me.
And you might be feeling a little frustrated right now, but believe me that if she were to go away from you or anything for any reason you will miss these very things !!!!
February 5th, 2011 at 2:54 pm
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can i just say first and foremost that hitting her or any woman is not an option,whether your parents are around,to approve or disprove,i had two sisters in my family,and i was the youngest of five,had excactly the same over attention as your having,and all the embarrasment that goes along with it,i know mate,but if your waiting for her to change,then your in for a very long wait, instead why not change the way you see it? change of attitude,so instead of seeing yourself as being some kind of victim of a overbearing dominant female,,,by the way,your being only 16 really shows mate, because as you will find out in future relationships,women by there very nature are the home makers and the carers,its built into them at birth,its us guys who have the natural inclination to stay freed up and play,shes just doing what most of them do anyway,and as time goes by,and she settles into a relationship and has a kid of her own to make a fuss of,you will be some distant memory,and someone who will be looking for the same affectionate cuddles and love from someone out there,just hope you dont mistake love and affection shown to you, as someone who is wanting to dominate and have the advantage over you, oh and hitting women is for neanderthal men who are still scratching an itch,because they have not taken the time to apply there intellect, such wonderfull things come from simple communication,try it