I **** my elder sister. She’s self-centered and never been a sister to the four of us?
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My elder sister is such a self-centered person. She only thinks of herself and never acted like a big sister to the four of us. All she ever thinks about is how to please her so-called friends which I think is not true to her.She oftenly brags about other girls that are pretty except the three of us. We are four girls in the family and I am the second, I feel obliged to take care of my other younger sisters. My parents seems to understand her attitude but for me I think they don’t care at all thinks that I can manage on my own. I feel like I’m unloved and uncared in the family. What should I do?
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My elder sister is such a self-centered person. She only thinks of herself and never acted like a big sister to the four of us. All she ever thinks about is how to please her so-called friends which I think is not true to her.She oftenly brags about other girls that are pretty except the three of us. We are four girls in the family and I am the second, I feel obliged to take care of my other younger sisters. My parents seems to understand her attitude but for me I think they don’t care at all thinks that I can manage on my own. I feel like I’m unloved and uncared in the family. What should I do?
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March 3rd, 2011 at 7:57 pm
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ok- i know its really hard to live with that. cut your older sister some slack, cause shes prolly just going through a wierd phase. i am the older sister of 3 and i dont like taking care of my sisters either. however, i know its really hard. sit down with ur sister and talk about it. from experience, its hard for younger siblings to get the oldest to talk, but say its really really important, or even make a deal with her to do something if she will take 5 minutes out to listen to u. hope this helps!