Hi im hari, im 29yrs old and im a mech engineer.i have two problems my elder brother’s future and my marriage?
Hari Babu asked:
my elder brother has not settled in life and im working in mnc and im getting 6lacs per annum im good looking also but no one is ready to give their daughter bcos im working in kashmir im a south indian actually.this is not the big problem to me my problem is to settle my elder brother bcos he has struggled so much to educate me and he is married and he is having child also please give me suggetion my brother studied up to 7th class im not able to help all these days bcos he is not ready to work in north leaving his family in our village.he is not able run a business also we have tried that lot of times im getting mad thinking about his future.what should i do please help me friends im financially helping him now tommorow anything happens to me who will take care of him…
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my elder brother has not settled in life and im working in mnc and im getting 6lacs per annum im good looking also but no one is ready to give their daughter bcos im working in kashmir im a south indian actually.this is not the big problem to me my problem is to settle my elder brother bcos he has struggled so much to educate me and he is married and he is having child also please give me suggetion my brother studied up to 7th class im not able to help all these days bcos he is not ready to work in north leaving his family in our village.he is not able run a business also we have tried that lot of times im getting mad thinking about his future.what should i do please help me friends im financially helping him now tommorow anything happens to me who will take care of him…
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February 10th, 2011 at 5:59 pm
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simple u get married first.It will make your brother think.and from your income be remitting money for him till his children get educated and employed.Perhaps he likes cultivation get him some land also.
February 11th, 2011 at 2:40 pm
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Wow.
The relationship you share with your brother is something i really admire.Try to set him up in some business in city.Like a grocery store.
You can marry later okay? Your brother has worked a lot to educate you and if you don’t settle your brother before you marry,Chances are that your wife might object to you helping your brother.
February 11th, 2011 at 8:43 pm
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Your financially helping him is good,but take help of your friends to settle him with modest income.As for your marriage choose another job in south so that you can get a girl witthout much difficulty
February 13th, 2011 at 4:18 pm
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First make your brother self sufficient and then think of settling yourself.