Abused by false and unsubstantiated reports to Elder Abuse six times?
youareneurotic asked:
What can be done about this situation? I have a medling cousin who put my mother under undue influence and had a lot of money subsequently placed in trust for her. I have now obtained a temporary guardianship and am awaiting a permanent guardianship but the ELDER ABUSE hotline is smoking with calls from the neice both before and after her medling into my mother’s finances. I already know that I can keep the game going and report the neice to elder abuse but my main purpose is really to get elder abuse to cease and desist their fanatical investigations of me that have amounted to only a hill of beans. How many more false reports do I have to be subjected to?? How many more lengthy investigations do I have to submit to? Also, this latest elder abuse investigator seems to be overstepping his authority by implying that my mother needs to be living in a nursing home when she is receiving superb home care and the doctor has ordered home care and there are two us who care 4 her
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What can be done about this situation? I have a medling cousin who put my mother under undue influence and had a lot of money subsequently placed in trust for her. I have now obtained a temporary guardianship and am awaiting a permanent guardianship but the ELDER ABUSE hotline is smoking with calls from the neice both before and after her medling into my mother’s finances. I already know that I can keep the game going and report the neice to elder abuse but my main purpose is really to get elder abuse to cease and desist their fanatical investigations of me that have amounted to only a hill of beans. How many more false reports do I have to be subjected to?? How many more lengthy investigations do I have to submit to? Also, this latest elder abuse investigator seems to be overstepping his authority by implying that my mother needs to be living in a nursing home when she is receiving superb home care and the doctor has ordered home care and there are two us who care 4 her
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March 14th, 2011 at 8:44 am
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Get a lawyer and take off the gloves
March 16th, 2011 at 10:28 pm
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You absolutely should get a lawyer. But also remember that the elder abuse folks are required to investigate every report, and that is for your mother’s sake. They are just doing their job. When they investigate, they are documenting the care your mother receives and her situation, which actually will provide evidence that you are not abusing your mother if that is the truth. They will come to know that the complaining party is making it up if that is the case, but they do still have to keep investigating every complaint.
March 17th, 2011 at 10:55 am
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Do not let this go. Report the person to the elder abuse hotline over and over. How old is this niece? If she is young then report her to the police and say what you must to save this older women and what ever you do - do not put her in a home of any type. She will die. Plus do not go for guardianship but secure all documents such as poa, health care proxy, any job related guardianship papers and make sure you do not let this person in to your home at all. They will steal each thing you have in your home. Do not go to a guardian as you will have a tougher time with that then with the niece. Believe me.